Something Good About You

by Roselyn Staples

I could hardly wait to get there. I had very careful directions along a winding country road…, “when you have gone a mile you will see a school bus sign, turn your left blinker on immediately and turn left at the next driveway. Follow the drive all the way to the end. Then you will be at our house.” It was a beautiful place—on a lake—another time it would be good to just gaze at God’s creation, but that’s not why I came today. I only glanced at the surroundings because I was looking for this man I really wanted to meet. He is the father of one of my friends and is staying at his surgeon son’s home because he is recovering from “the toughest general surgical procedure” there is. A remarkable feat at 86 years old. But the compelling reason that made me want to meet him is that he has been a pastor for 66 years.

As I entered this home, this regal man walked easily toward me. He was wearing a sweater over surgical scrubs. His eyes were bright and his voice, although soft, was articulate and confident. His frame seemed almost too small for the enthusiasm of his spirit. I had to remind myself he was recovering from surgery. We exchanged compliments we had heard about each other as his daughter-in-law introduced me to his wife. This man, whom I shall  call Pastor Pete, broke into such a lyrical form of speech that I wondered if he was reciting poetry. It turned out to be the case.

SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT YOU*

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if the people we meet would say, “I know something good about you,” Then would treat you just that way?

And wouldn’t it be wonderful if each handshake warm and true carried with it that assurance, “I know something good about you?”

And wouldn’t this old world be happier if the good that’s in us all was the only thing about us that people would ever bother to recall?

And wouldn’t it be happier still if they’d praise the good they see? For there is a lot of goodness in the worst of you and me.

I think it’s wonderful That way of thinking too. “You know something good about me, And I know something good about you.

We smiled in mutual appreciation of this truth and then the four of us settled comfortably in a beautiful sunroom that had a lake view. Joining us was the biggest dog I had ever seen, too friendly to be frightening and readily assumed the right to full participation with us. I made Pastor Pete promise that he would tell me if he got tired but that I had some questions I really wanted to ask him. He just grinned and we began.  l’ll continue the story of my conversation with Pastor Pete in future blogs.

How sweet it is to begin a new conversation when the groundwork for kindness, respect and pleasantness has been laid. Is this not what Jesus would want and expect of us? I know something good about you, and you know something good about me.

What new conversations do you need to begin? You can start right here. I look forward to having a new converstation with you. Please share your faith stories, questions, prayers, and thoughts of senior living with me and then I’ll know something good about you.

*recited from memory based upon the poem I Know Something Good About You written by Louis C. Shimon

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An Angel Sitting at the End of My Bed

 

by J Roesler

Granddaddy Romine was a poor Texas farmer.  I don’t remember much about Granddaddy except for old faded family pictures.  He was a tall man with dark, deeply wrinkled skin from the hot Texas sun.  He sported a full head of white hair, and big, bushy white eyebrows.  I remember him coming for a visit once, riding the bus all the way from Texas to Michigan.  That’s about the extent of what I remember as I was only 4 when he died.  But Granddaddy Romine left a spiritual legacy that I will never forget and will pass on to my children.  This is the incredible story of God’s miraculous protection and healing and the legacy he left.

Farming is a never-ending job and the day’s work is long and hard.  Plowing on their rented land in eastern Texas in 1946, Granddaddy Romine worked the field up and down alongside a ditch.  As he backed up the tractor to get closer to the ditch and continue to plow, the tractor tipped over on him and he was knocked unconscious.  When he came to, he realized that he was pinned under the steering wheel and prayed, “Please God, don’t let me die like this.”  And with that, he passed out again.

When Granddaddy didn’t return home for dinner, his oldest son, Valton, went out looking for him.  He found Granddaddy lying in the field, not pinned under the tractor, but his chest was crushed.  Granddaddy was taken to the hospital in Greenville about 15 miles away.  Dr. Joe Becton, head of the hospital said that not much could be done for him medically and that Granddaddy would not live long.

Valton, telephoned Granddaddy’s sister, Aunt Janie, living in West Texas, nearly 700 miles away.  It was a time when one dreaded the words, “it’s long distance,” because such phone calls often brought bad news.

Aunt Janie and her husband, Uncle Forest, a minister, often listened to a local radio broadcast where people could call in prayer requests.  After hearing the news, Uncle Forest but put his hand on the radio and prayed for Granddaddy Romine.

At the same time back in the hospital, Mama Romine stood by Granddaddy’s side.  He said to her, “Vera, there’s an angel sitting at the end of my bed.”   The very words scared Mama Romine because she thought it surely must be the Angel of Death; but from that point on, Granddaddy’s condition improved.  The doctors took him into surgery to remove fluid from his chest.  Dr. Becton later told Mama Romine that is was not what he and the doctors had done, but Someone else had saved him.

My mother, living in Michigan, arrived three days later by train.  She and Mama Romine slept at the hospital until Granddaddy was completely out of danger.  When Granddaddy finally left the hospital, my mother heard a friend of Granddaddy’s comment to him that he was a very lucky man.  Granddaddy Romine responded, “I don’t know about that.  I just figure the Lord had something he wanted me to do before he took me home.”  Granddaddy lived another 11 years, until 1957; time enough for me to be born.

While I may not remember much about Granddaddy, this story has kept me in the faith during those times in my life when I had my deepest doubts.  I would think, if space were infinite, where is heaven?  And if there’s no heaven, then there can be no God.  At that point in my life, it seemed fitting for there to be no God because then there would be no sin, and if there were no sin, there’d be no reason for guilt.  But, if there were no God, then there could be no angels.  And that I just couldn’t accept.  There were angels, and they had saved my Granddaddy.  And if there were angels, there had to be a God, and if there were a God, then His word was truth and that meant Jesus was real and that He died for my sins—sins that I had to deal with.  I couldn’t walk away from the truth.

Many people have faith stories as real and miraculous as this one.  Write them down now, for you never know it might turn out to be just that strand that a grandchild needs to hang on to and hold firm in his or her faith.

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